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My First Mortgage

Most commonly ages 28–40Personal milestoneYou, A broker or lender, A conveyancer and a surveyor

General information drawn from common experience and public guidance — not medical, legal, or financial advice. For anything urgent or personal to your situation, speak with a qualified professional.

What to expect

Months of documents, several near-collapses, and a completion date that moves. Fees arrive in layers: survey, legal, tax, insurance. Signing commits you to a payment for decades, and the feeling on the day is relief mixed with mild nausea rather than pure joy.

How to prepare

  • Get a mortgage-in-principle and check your credit file before you offer on anything.
  • Budget beyond the deposit: legal fees, survey, transfer tax, insurance, moving, and immediate repairs.
  • Stress-test the payment against a higher interest rate before choosing the amount.
  • Pay for the fuller survey on an older property — it's cheap next to the roof.

What people say

We had the deposit for a year before we understood how much the fees on top would be.

Reported experience, first mortgage

It nearly fell through twice. Apparently that's just what happens.

Reported experience, first mortgage

What helps

  • A broker who compares the whole market rather than one lender's products.
  • Keeping an emergency fund after completion instead of spending it all on the deposit.
  • Reading the survey properly and renegotiating on what it finds.
  • Comparing total cost over the fixed term, not just the headline rate.

Do and don't

  • Do keep your finances boring during the application — no new credit, no job changes if avoidable.
  • Don't borrow the maximum offered simply because it's offered.
  • Don't skip buildings insurance from the day of exchange.

When to get help

  • A payment that only works if nothing in your life changes.
  • Pressure to overstate income or hide debts on an application.
  • Serious structural or damp findings dismissed by the seller.

What it costs

Deposit

Typically 5–20% of price

Buying fees

Legal, survey, tax, moving

Term

Commonly 25–35 years

Afterwards

Diary the end of your fixed rate and shop the remortgage early — that date is worth more than most budgeting. Budget roughly 1% of the property value a year for maintenance.

Why it matters

Housing costs become fixed rather than negotiable, and your financial decisions get a long shadow.

Deposit

Typically 5–20% of price

Buying fees

Legal, survey, tax, moving

Where to turn

National financial regulator's mortgage guidance

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